When you think about the perfect guy for you, you think about the way he should look, the way he should behave and, of course, the way he should treat you and make you feel.
No matter how old you are and no matter how mature you think you are, you secretly want your Prince Charming to march into your life and to make all of your dreams come true.
You want a man who will give you butterflies, a man who will put you through a roller coaster of emotions. You want a man who will make you feel like you are on top of the world and a man who will give you an unearthly love. A man who will make your life a living fairy tale and who will make you feel like a princess.
But what you seem to forget is that things like romance and passion come and go. Yes, these are all beautiful things to feel but life and stable relationships have to be built on other things.
That is why I am here to tell you to look for a man who will not only be your lover but also your best friend.
I am not telling you that this type of man won’t give you the passion and the butterflies you are looking for, because he will, but he will also give you much more besides that.
This man will give you his true love, understanding and compassion and this is exactly what every person in this world actually needs.
If this guy is also your best friend, it means he won’t see you through just your physical looks.
Instead, he will see your beauty from the inside. And he will love your soul more than he loves your body.
He will be interested in getting to know the person you are. He will be interested in your life, in your opinions, fears, hopes and dreams.
And he will accept you exactly the way you are. This guy will see your flaws and imperfections but he will love them as well, because he’ll know they are all a part of who you are as a person. This man will never try to change you and he’ll never make you think you have to pretend to be someone you are not.
This man will put the effort into getting to know the essence of your personality.
This is the man who will love you the same at your best and at your worst and the man who will never judge you.
He will understand every word you say and every move you make because he will know what you are thinking about before you know it yourself.
This man will always find ways to forgive you and to understand what caused you to do something because he knows you inside out. He knows the way you think and he knows your intentions.
This guy will not just be your best friend but also your number one supporter and fan. He will believe in you even when you stop believing in yourself.
He will always have your back, because that is what real friends do, right?This is the man you will be able to turn to when everyone else abandons you.
When you find this guy, you won’t feel like you are alone in this world ever again because once you’ve found him, you’ve found your forever person.
Because he won’t just be your lover and friend; he will be your companion through life and your partner in every sense of that word.
He will be someone to hold your hand when you need it the most, your shoulder to cry on and the wind to your wings.
This is the man you’ll be thrilled to share your life with—the first person you’ll want to go to whenever something good or bad happens to you. The person you’ll want to share your every thought and emotion with and the person who will always be there for you, no matter what.
This is the man you’ll enjoy spending the rest of your life with, even once the initial butterflies have gone away. This is the man you’ll want to grow old with and the man you’ll never stop loving.