You’ve had many boyfriends in your life so far. But it never worked out with any of them and now it has become obvious to you that none of those guys was right for you. Or maybe you are currently in a relationship and you are wondering if your partner is the person you should spend the rest of your life with.
Well, let me tell you one thing. Nobody can tell you who the right guy for you is because different people search for different things in a relationship and seek out different qualities in their partner. So the truth is that you can never be sure who is right for you in the very beginning. But what I can tell you is what the right guy will never do to you and how he will never behave.
The right guy will never disrespect you, he will never try to diminish your worth and he will never show you that he doesn’t appreciate you. He will never do anything that could potentially cause you pain and he will definitely not hurt you intentionally. He will never ask you to change the essence of your personality and he will never try to control you. This guy will never manipulate you and will never be a self-centered asshole who only thinks about his own needs. He will never take advantage of you and he will never use you to boost his own ego.
Simply, this guy will never make your life harder.
Instead, the right guy will make all of life’s difficulties and stressful situations bearable and easy to handle. Instead of being a storm in your life, he will bring you peace. With him by your side, you’ll feel like you are the strongest and most powerful woman in the world. You’ll feel like there is nothing you can’t do as long as you have him to hold your hand through life.
He will be your harbor and he will always feel like home. This guy will be your light at the end of the tunnel. Whenever you are going through a rough period in your life, whenever you are struggling with some issues or problems or whenever you are just having a bad day, this guy will never make it worse for you. Instead, he will be the first one to give you a hand, he will be the one who will help you stand up whenever you fall down. He will always have your back and you’ll know you will have his support no matter what.
So if you have a man by your side who is nothing like this but is actually the main source of pain and stress for you, this man is not right for you and he is not someone you should even consider spending the rest of your life with, despite all the love you might be feeling for him. If you have a man who is making you feel bad about yourself and who brings darkness to your world, it is a clear sign that he is not for you. If you have a man who makes your life miserable and who makes you unhappy most of the time, he is not your soulmate and he is certainly not your forever person, no matter how much you want him to be.
Always remember that the right guy will never make your life hell. Instead, he will make it a paradise on earth.
You may think that love has to hurt sometimes. You probably think it requires many sacrifices and that pain is simply a part of every relationship. But let me tell you that you are very wrong.
Because true love never hurts. I am not saying love is perfect and that you won’t have any problems or bad periods with Mr. Right but there are some things you will never experience with him. The truth is that every successful relationship requires a lot of effort and patience but it doesn’t mean that you should feel miserable most of the time. Because if you do, trust me—this is not the right thing.
So please, never settle for any guy who you know is not right for you. Never settle for someone who makes your life harder or worse. If this is the case, trust me—you will be much better off alone until the right guy comes along.