An alpha is not only someone who is bossy and dominant. It could be, but it’s not always the case. An alpha woman has many different personality traits that make her an alpha. In most cases, alpha women are born with the fire that makes them run the world. But, who says that you can’t light up the same exact fire? There’s a way to become whatever you want to become. Of course, the way to it is not easy at all. It takes a lot of time and practice. But, when you have the will to do it and when you’re motivated enough, then you are unstoppable.
Being an alpha woman could benefit you so much. You’d be stronger and wiser and, above all, happier. You’d be aware of who you are and realize that the point of life is not to lean on others, but to fight by yourself. An alpha woman doesn’t need anyone to tell her how to live her life. She is not the type of person you can order around. She’s pretty aware of herself and her abilities. She has strictly-defined goals and she will never give up on them. She is also someone who takes care of herself and who appreciates life. In fact, every woman should train herself to be an alpha. That way she’ll know how to live her life to the fullest and how to make her dreams come true. An alpha woman doesn’t wait for things to happen—she makes them happen. And even if something is not meant to be, she doesn’t cry over it. It is what it is.
Steps to becoming an alpha
1. Motivate yourself
If you don’t find motivation for anything in your, life then you won’t do it. Without any will and motivation, anything you start doing won’t be so good. So find a great motivation for yourself while becoming an alpha. Maybe your motivation could be a woman you’ve been admiring and whose life you’d like to live. If you know her personally, then maybe she could even be your mentor. Observe her and her actions, and learn from her. If you don’t know her personally, then motivate yourself by imagining the way your life would be if you went through all these steps. Keep that picture always in your mind.
2. Dedicate time to your goals
What do you want? What are your goals in life? Why aren’t you working on them? Seriously, get up and do it. If you don’t do it, no one will do it for you. If you need to educate yourself a bit more in order to qualify for your dream job, then do it now. There’s no better time than right now to start working towards your goals—also, you’re not getting any younger.
3. Prioritize everything in your life
If you really want to dedicate time to achieving your goals, you need to prioritize them. An alpha woman would never lose time on something that doesn’t benefit her in any way. So realize what doesn’t benefit your and stop making time for it. As simple as that.
4. Clean up your life (and your apartment)
Once you know what you’re priorities are, you need to get rid of everyone and everything that you don’t consider important in your life. Spend time with people you really care about, not with people that drain your energy. And try to live more minimalistically. If your apartment is crowded, it could take a while to clean it. So instead of spending time on cleaning so many things, it’s better to get rid of what you don’t need. A minimalistic lifestyle means having as much as you need. Don’t lose yourself in a huge pile of unnecessary things. Don’t let things own you. You own them.
You have to cut out of your life whatever is toxic for you. You don’t need anything or anyone. You can do everything on your own. And if someone is not ready to accept you for who you are and support your dreams, then it’s time for him (or her) to go. Your toleration should have limits.
The biggest priority for an alpha woman is her health. She’s aware that she can’t accomplish anything if she’s not healthy. That’s why you need to take care of yourself. If you’re not healthy and strong, nothing else in your life is important. You need to train and meditate, so you can be physically and mentally healthy. Practice your focus and spend time in nature. You’ll notice how happier you feel. If you train, you get that confidence boost and feel like you can do anything you imagine.
An alpha woman who wants to be successful in her field never stops educating herself. The world is full of new things to learn and science is improving day by day. Try to read consistently so you don’t lose your habit of reading and becoming informed Ifr your job doesn’t leave you much time for reading, make the time—you can read on the bus or train to work; consider audio tapes and news feeds while in the car.
It doesn’t have to be reading though. A hobby or talent is also important but you need to make time for that,too. Don’t waste your skills and talents. Make time for improving yourself. Don’t wake up one day with regrets because you haven’t used that beautiful voice of yours to inspire someone with it.
Would an alpha woman let herself miss out on something important? Nope. She would never do that. She has trained herself to be focused all the time and to be aware of everything that’s going on around her and in the whole world. She watches the news because she likes being informed. She is curious and always hungry for knowledge. Therefore, she’s always focused on everything that’s going on and she is well-informed about any topic.
8. Don’t forget why you started
If you ever lose your will in this process, just remind yourself why you even started. Take some time and remember what kind of a woman you’re trying to become and what motivated you in the first place. Reflect on the moment you decided you’re going to do this and on every moment you felt proud of yourself because of how much you achieved. Don’t ever let yourself lose the motivation that drove you at the beginning.